By Dr. Rabbi-Cohen Shalomim Y. HaLahawi OMD, ND, Ph.D., PsyD, DPH, DFM, D.TCM
Leader of the global Edenic Civilization Movement
Mizrahi-Ethiopian Jewish Int’l Rabbinical Council Inc.

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Reference Online Video
The Interview of the Rabbi Cohen-Crisis in Hebrew Leadership – YouTube

How the culture of normalized domestic violence has affected the black woman’s concepts of love.

Seems like the past week, the top subject of discussion, with black women that I’ve sat down with, was domestic violence, and the acceptance of it as the norm. I’ve had to guide many black sista’s(black men) on why domestic violence is not acceptable and I’ve also realized how many are perpetuating a cycle that was simply passed on to them by their parents and their parent’s parents, leading them to believe this was how things are supposed to be because this destructive behavior is all they know.

There is absolutely nothing normal or acceptable about domestic violence, physical and emotional abuse. The acceptance and then the defense to try to explain away another person’s violent behavior comes directly from the fact that young black girls are taught the wrong concepts about love, and end up developing a self-hate complex that uses overtly extreme emotional compulsion to justify staying with an abusive man and defining that emotional attachment as love, sometimes even to the point of such women resulting to violence themselves….

That is not love…. That is emotional and mental enslavement & because it’s now a cultural thing, accepting low standard men(or visa versa) while avoiding men of stature, principle, and standard, is the behavior behind why we are seeing black women shot and killed every single day by the men they’ve tried to justify & defend, using falsified love, brainwashed into them by their own black culture.’

Why it’s difficult for broken women to find good men

Those who are leftover and survive and find themselves alone, unmarried, and unable to establish sustainable faithful relationships then go into the “there are no good men” mentality.

Yes, there are good men… We are all in abundance and available. Some of us are monogamous and many of us are polygamous, but we are men of righteousness, culture, principle, foundation and we are patriarchal as Elah & the laws of physics designed us to be and thus we provide stability, growth, fulfillment, and balance in our lives and families.

However, most of the women mentioned above cannot see us, because Elah has intentionally blinded them, due to their own toxic ideologies of love and the brokenness that has been instilled within them, and has defined within them the wrong concepts of love which if they were allowed to see us and come around us they would then be a threat to our stability and balance.

Genesis 2:18  And יהוה Elohim said, “It is not good for the man to be alone, I am going to make a helper for him, as his counterpart.”

Remember Yahwah Elah was the first to ever walk a woman down the aisle and give her away to a man he created in his own image and likeness. That is because she was pure, whole, unique, and complete in herself as he originally designed her, thus he trusted her to be a helpmeet and female counterpart to the man Adam, who was created and was walking in his original design.

Elah is never going to choose a woman that he can’t trust to be the principal counterpart to the real men he has available. He is never going to put us men of light in a position or relationship that will threaten who we are, our well-being, and stability to our own demise. Those of us who are good, and who may have stumbled or had a woman stand in our way rather than walk beside us are due to either satan placing such stumblingblocks before us because of a special anointing or we decided to presumptuously run after a woman rather than allow Elah to bring the right women to us, as he did with Eve to Adam.

Gen 2:22  And the rib which יהוה Elohim had taken from the man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man.

Gen 2:23  And the man said, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh. This one is called ‘woman,’ because she was taken out of man.”

So, this is why he doesn’t allow women, who have been poisoned with false knowledge that ultimately makes them a magnet for abuse and brokenness, to see or find good men, while they are in such a state. Such women must first become enlightened to understand the destructiveness of violence, abuse, and conflict and must remove themselves from those environments. At the same time, they must learn and understand the difference between a man who’s destructive, controlling, and abusive, that oppresses her verse a good man who is “in control”, is a leader, principled, and is there to protect her & their relationship from the destructive and bad elements of life, as well as to be the head and foundation of the relationship, the family and shared vision for the sustained prosperity and continued evolution of such family and relationship according to “his name” as he is rooted in the divine laws of Elah. On the surface, some aspects can seem similar to a broken woman, but they are not of the same spirit nor substance. Such women cannot allow their brokenness and pain to mistake a man who is “in control” with a man whose abusive and controlling. This deception leads to obstinate behaviors, and fight or flight decisions that then render such women as being “out of control” to their own demise and detriment.

Physics, Science & Divine law blueprint for human life

Men and women are all created to function a certain way as dictated by the laws of physics. The positive(masculine) polarity & the negative(female polarity) of all atoms, neutrons, and energy must co-exist together for any form of energy, electricity or life to be sustained. The positive polarity cannot function without the negative polarity and the negative polarity cannot function without the positive polarity. If at any time the positive and negative polarities of this planet cease to co-exist and work in synch, all life on earth would cease to exist immediately. The positive polarity is a dominant polarity. It’s foundational and is leading. The negative polarity is a recessive polarity. It is submissive, but not inferior, and works as a counterpart to the positive polarity to sustain and produce what we understand as “All Life in the universe”… That is science and that is the Law of Yahwah Elah. We are built to exist according to those laws. That is the reasoning behind why Yahwah Elah said,

“it is not good for Adam to be alone, I will make a helpmeet, a counterpart for him”
This is the meaning of life, love, relationships, family building, and marriage. That is why the first law Elah ever gave to mankind was the law of sex and prosperity:

Genesis 1:27  And Elohim created the man in their image, in the image of Elohim they created him – male and female They created them.

Gen 1:28  And Elohim blessed them, and Elohim said to them, “Bear fruit and increase, and fill the earth and subdue it, and rule over the fish of the sea, and over the birds of the heavens, and over all creatures moving on the earth.”

We are created to be the express image of energy and life according to the Laws of physics that Elah has established. We are literally the physical expression of physics, the embodiment of wind and spirit. Thus in order for us to be able to produce life within ourselves, for us to prosper and evolve, we must be united and in synch, male and female(s) in a union that is sustainable and stable enough for us to produce life, live and walk according to our original design.  Neither man nor woman can do this being single, broken, and walking around with destructive false knowledge that has been normalized by the culture that was handed to them as they came into this realm via their father’s sperm of instability and birth via their mother’s womb of brokenness.

Ezekiel 16:4  “As for your birth, on the day you were born your navel cord was not cut, nor were you washed in water for cleansing, and you were not rubbed with salt at all, nor wrapped in cloth at all.

Eze 16:5  “No eye felt sorry for you, to do any of these for you, to have compassion on you. But you were thrown out into the open field, to the loathing of your life on the day you were born.”

This verse is the reality of soo many black women & other marginalized women in America, and even many black men and others. Many of you are victims of rape culture. Your uncle, cousin, brother, or even your father, aunt, pastor, rabbi, imam, or priest sexually and emotionally abused you. You have been beaten and bruised soo much that you have come to believe that is the only way it is supposed to be and you justify it by finding fault or wrongdoing within yourselves. You want to love, you want to feel accepted and appreciated, and even in your brokenness you try to be a good woman, but no matter what you find yourself in a cycle of betrayal. Your man cheated, even if you had an open relationship. Or you find yourself battling feminine issues, such as disease because of his betrayals. You finally find your ability to love dying out. Some of you may have been hurt so much that you become angry and vengeful and thus you engage in the tit for tat behavior. He cheats on you, so you go and cheat on him with another man(or woman), not realizing the portal of destructive darkness and death is then opened and then you find yourselves in an uncontrollable cycle of numerous sexual partners. Some of you become so numb to the hope of love, passion, and compassion that you feel nothing during sex and it just becomes a thing of temporal pleasure or even money, while others use sex as a drug to just numb the pain even if it was for 15 to 30 minutes of sexual pleasure… And yet many of you cry in the shower, feeling dirty, unworthy, wondering what’s wrong with you and why nobody wants you or loves you and only uses you, takes advantage of you, and then throw’s you away…

Thus the cycle of violence, hatred, unfaithfulness and destructive behaviors continue to create misery, pain, and brokenness. How can life be produced and sustained when such laws of physics are broken every day? Could this be the root to why prosperity & fruitfulness, as commanded, are not being manifest within your lives? I must say having babies in a destructive environment, and suffering from a poverty of mind mentality is not what Elah had in mind when he said be fruitful, multiply and prosper in order to have dominion. Yet you’re in pain and you know deep down inside you don’t know what do to, where to go, and who to trust, so you develop defensive mechanisms, you harden your hearts and you have prepared yourselves to fight because you are simply trying “to survive”….Crying out for help, even on social media, as you post about your pains, your betrayals, your anger and your weariness, tired of going in circles and repeating the same things over and over again that is hurting you to the core of your soul. Feeling as if there is no one who understands your struggles and what you have to battle with every day, as you sank deeper and deeper into depression and sadness.

I am here to tell you that Yahwah Elah is listening & he’s watching: He’s wanting to raise you up, clean up the mess and heal your pain. He’s wanting you to turn to him, see how he has designed the elements that produce life, how he has established the principles of physics, the laws of relativity as it relates to your being and design. He’s placing people, such as myself, within your path with a message that can lead to your healing, restoration, and eventual ability to find love, be loved and to love again, and never have to worry nor experience the culture of violence and abuse again. Where you are truly fulfilled, knowing you have the right man in your life.

Eze 16:6  “Then I passed by you and saw you trampled down in your own blood, and I said to you in your blood, ‘Live!’ And I said to you in your blood, ‘Live!’Eze 16:7  “I have let you grow like a plant in the field. And you are grown and are great, and you come in the finest ornaments. – breasts were formed, your hair grew, and you were naked and bare.Eze 16:8  “Again I passed by you and looked upon you and saw that your time was the time of love. And I spread My skirt over you and covered your nakedness. And I swore an oath to you and entered into a covenant with you, and you became Mine,” declares the Master יהוה.

Eze 16:9  “And I washed you in water, and I washed off your blood, and I anointed you with oil. Eze 16:10  “And I dressed you in embroidered work and gave you sandals of leather. And I wrapped you in fine linen and covered you with silk.

Eze 16:11  “And I adorned you with ornaments, and I put bracelets on your wrists, and a chain on your neck. Eze 16:12  “And I put a ring on your nose, and earrings in your ears, and a crown of adorning on your head.

Eze 16:13  “Thus you were adorned with gold and silver, and your dress was of fine linen, and silk, and embroidered cloth. You ate fine flour, and honey, and oil. And you were exceedingly pretty, and became fit for royalty.

Eze 16:14  “And your name went out among the nations because of your loveliness, for it was perfect, by My splendour which I had put on you,” declares the Master יהוה.
This is what Elah desires for you, yet the black woman, the broken woman must re-adjust their minds to desire men of great repute & shun the men of low to no standard, and then learn and prepare themselves to be an empowered woman, patterned after a proverbs 31 Hebrew woman, measuring themselves and their worth by the divine laws of Elah, evolving more and more to the point that it is Yahwah Elah who sees her and he says,

“this is the woman I want for that specific man of great repute”….

Proverbs 31:10  Who does find an empowered woman? For she is worth far more than rubies. Pro 31:11  The heart of her husband shall trust her, And he has no lack of gain. Pro 31:12  She shall do him good, and not evil, All the days of her life.Only then will he open your eyes and you’ll see that “good man” standing right there before you the entire time, whom you probably ignored and would not have considered because you simply couldn’t see him and he was not like what you were taught regarding what type of man you should give your body and soul to.

Gen 2:22  …………… and He brought her to the man.

Gen 2:23  And the man said, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh………..Gen 2:24  For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and cleave to his woman, and they shall become one flesh.

Gen 2:25  And they were both naked, the man and his wife, yet they were not ashamed.

This is science, the laws of nature, physics, and relativity in effect in this verse. In fact, when Elah said it was not good for man to be alone, The Hebrew word for alone is ‘Bad-ley’. This word is a direct expression of the law of physics because it literally means “ to be a polarity over and against oneself”.

We must never allow ourselves to become a polarity over and against ourselves. Do you want to know how to create an atomic bomb that destroys everything in its path in simple laymen’s terms? You split atoms and turn the polarities against themselves outside of their order, original design, which then causes them to become unstable. If you want to cause an electrical explosion within your home that can kill you and destroy everything, then create a socket in the wall that has a positive polarity, instead of a negative polarity, and then stick a cord/plug, that has a positive polarity into the socket, resulting in two of the same polarities coming into contact with each other, and boom!!! An explosion will occur.

I’ve practiced Integrative Medicine for 16+yrs, with multiple post-graduate specialties, including having a knowledge of genetics & biological science, even as it relates to generation curses expressed through disease, mental health disorders, and even destructive behaviors. Do you want the simple knowledge of what causes genetic defects that leads to these things, also in simple laymen’s terms? You simply corrupt the polarities of the human cells via environmental pollution, unhealthy diets, drug and alcohol abuse, and destructive behavioral patterns that disrupt the natural order of life within the human biological system, and the RNA & DNA then mutates, encodes those destructive inserts, normalizes it and then passes it on to the next unborn child who then exhibits and suffers from what he/she has inherited. That is how we get Type I diabetes, family risks of cardiovascular disease, Depression, Autism, mental health and behavioral problems, psychopaths, sociopaths, rapists, murderers, homosexuality, lesbianism, & gender confusion(which is due to a malfunction of the same endocrine & hormonal system that results in diabetes), people who are prone to crave and use drugs subconsciously(i.e. marijuana which specifically targets the RNA and DNA structure of the male sperm), children who are unable to perform and excel academically, and even women and children who are perpetually abused and who repeat the same lifestyle and tragedies as their parents and ancestors. In all of these instances, the polarities of the original human design were made unstable leading to genetic, biological, psychological, and spiritual corruption.

Finding the root cause, rather than just addressing the symptoms

You have to understand the roots of your environment. The environment of mental abuse, religious repressive, Anglo-Saxon puritan holy roller abuse, sexual abuse, and physical abuse are all forms of toxic pollution to the human world. Yes, people are using religion to disguise their abuse of others, to degrade others, never lifting them up nor providing viable solutions that lead to the evolution of the human mind towards the reality of healing, growth & prosperity.

There is a big difference between condemnation, degradation, ostracizing & belittling people for the sake of being religiously right vs them being wrong, and understanding this:

Jeremiah 1:10  “See, I have this day set you over the nations and over the reigns, to root out and to pull down, to destroy and to overthrow, to build and to plant.”

Too many religious people are hell bent on rooting out, pulling down, and destroying people’s lives, but never having a plan nor solution to build and plant those people’s lives for the better.

There will always be a place for judgment because it’s designed to give balance and sustain balance both spiritually, culturally and civilization-wise. Judgement is how we discern things and make decisions in life. That is why we have Judges in Courts and Spiritual Judges and leaders in every culture and balanced religious system, to ensure justice and justness amongst the inhabitants, citizens, or members. However, there is a huge difference between a righteous Judge and a tyrant. Too many religious people end up being tyrants towards the broken, the unstable, the hurting, and those caught up in a cycle of destructive culture because that is all they know. That is why very few get saved from prostitution which leads to out of control sex trafficking, drug abuse, and mental health problems because too many religious people are being the tyrant type of judge rather than the righteous judge who can help people get an insight into their issues and struggles & then provide an effective alternative and solution for those caught up in the cycles. The behavior of holy-rollers is no different from being in an abusive relationship and justifying it.

Thus, many of you have to stop running from being judged and walking around with the dangerous pandemic virus called the “do not judge me syndrome”. We all have to be judged. Even when we do good, and others praise us for the good we do, at that moment we are being judged. When a physician gives a diagnosis of your disease or imbalance and recommends you change your diet or stop engaging in a destructive act that is causing the disease, they are giving a judgment. Judgment is a two-way street. We just have to know which persons are there to help us identify what is hurting us vs those who are just there to make themselves feel superior by degrading us.

When Yahwah Elah refuses to give you to a righteous man & blinds you from seeing such men around you, because you choose to remain in the culture and environment of pollution that is hurting you and keeping you in a perpetual state of brokenness, that Is Yahwah judging you by making a determination about you at that moment and saying ‘you are not ready nor trustworthy enough to not be a threat to the righteous men he has for you’(same for you men with regard to Elah presenting the right woman before you).

When Elah sees you trying to change, calling out to him and wanting to do what is right so that you can find the love of your life and for your life, and he says ‘she is ready to be whom I designed her to be, let me go and take her by the hand and give her to someone special that I have created for such a time as this’, that is Yahwah Elah judging you and determining your trustworthiness.

The proper Way to spark relationship interest

Once Elah trusts you enough to see that man, then he’ll take you spiritually by the hand and walk you to that man and present you before that man, and you will see a great change in the circumstance in your life for the greater good, because now you have a foundation and covering(roof), where you can build, grow and prosper in your original design. Yes, that means you have to get off your ass and go and present yourself and make it known that you want that righteous man and you want to submit and stand by that man and be a part of his life, and his family(if he’s polygamous), and be One with him, as his counter-part and (co)-Helpmeet.

Proverbs 18:22  “He who has found a woman has found good, And receives favour from יהוה”.

Genesis 2:18  “And יהוה Elohim said, “It is not good for the man to be alone…”
Deu 30:15  “See, I have set before you today life and good, and death and evil……”

Deu 30:19  “I have called the heavens and the earth as witnesses today against you: I have set before you life and death, the blessing and the curse…….”

What do the verses above all have in common? They all give definitions of what constitutes evil, death, and curses, and what constitutes good, life, and blessings. It’s a blueprint of the law of relativity rooted in free will and personal choice that comes with the law of consequence. Thus, if you are single and alone, and have not established a covenant relationship, in the proper timing and season allotted, with your opposite polarity as you are originally designed and commanded, then what state are you in based on the above?
You are in a state of evil, death, and curses. There can be no life production nor blessings or good that can come out of living against yourself and the design of Elah for your very existence. We are created and designed to be physically, sexually, and emotionally attracted to the opposite sex, and to want to be intertwined with the opposite sex the moment we hit puberty and the science of physics wakes up our nature via our biological hormones that were set in motion by Elah to automatically make us function a certain way towards each other, no matter what western puritanism has taught to the contrary according to its repressive, anti-Edenic doctrine. That is why our forefathers have insisted that we marry off our daughters at an early age. so that she can be aligned with the biological sexual call of Edenic Law.

Sirach 7:25 “Give a daughter in marriage, and you complete a great task; but give her to a sensible man”.

Thus love, affection, relationships, marriage and family building are the foundational goals of life that we are expected to achieve according to how we were designed under the laws of physics and the laws of relativity. Relativity is rooted in the very concept of “relationships”.

Talmud Kiddushin 29b, “Raba said, and the School of R. Ishmael taught likewise: Until the age of twenty, the Holy One, blessed be He, sits and waits. When will he take a wife? As soon as one attains twenty and has not married, He exclaims, ‘Blasted be his bones!’

“Therefore you shall choose life, so that you live, both you and your seed,”

The destructive and violent elements of black & liberalized culture must be broken. Black women, who have survived the death and abuse waves perpetrated by other black men & unworthy men, must change course and women must re-learn the true concepts of love so that they can fulfill the commands of Elah according to their original design, and so that they can heal, find happiness and fulfillment. Not contentment, fulfillment in life so that they and their relationship and family can prosper.

A healing process must take place, and there can be no more room for acceptance of abuse and exploitation, nor of any destructive behaviors that serve as stumbling blocks to your evolution, wholeness, and fulfillment. You must sever ties with that culture and move in a different direction on a different path, as set and ordered by Elah so that he can step in and bring healing to your heart and love to your soul.

You can never walk in your original design as a woman(or man) while your soul has been broken and such brokenness has been normalized. Get away from the environmental pollution of violence, betrayal, and emotional oppression. You deserve better than that. You were created in the image and likeness of Elahin (Elohim-Yahwah Elah and Chockimah, the Ruwah Ha-Qodesh). It’s time to receive what your heart deserves & what your design mandates.

As our ancient Hebrew Elders romantically wrote, to encourage our own women in Judaism regarding love,

Song of Solomon 8:4  I have put you under oath, O daughters of Yerushalayim, Do not stir up or awake love until it pleases.”

Seek the knowledge of Elah and start the process of preparing yourself to be whole, unique, and complete in yourself (holistic), so that Elah can stand up, transform you, and walk you down the aisles of life and give you True Love to the right man. Do not continue to give your body, mind, and soul to the unworthy. Preserve yourself and prepare yourself, for there is a good man, a ram in the bush, that Elah already has for you when you finally cross over into his Way.

This isn’t religion that I am speaking to you, it’s science, it’s the divine prophetic Words of Yahwah Elah, the blueprint and manual to help you achieve your “Original Design”.

Malachi 4:1  “For look, the day shall come, burning like a furnace, and all the proud, and every wrongdoer shall be stubble. And the day that shall come shall burn them up,” said יהוה of hosts, “which leaves to them neither root nor branch.Mal 4:2  “But to you who fear My Name the Sun of Righteousness shall arise with healing in His wings. And you shall go out and leap for joy like calves from the stall.

Mal 4:3  “And you shall trample the wrongdoers, for they shall be ashes under the soles of your feet on the day that I do this,” said יהוה of hosts.

Mal 4:4  “Remember the Torah of Mosheh, My servant, which I commanded him in Ḥorĕḇ for all Yisra’ĕl – laws and right-rulings.“

Proverbs 31:29  “Many daughters have done nobly, But you have risen over them all.”Pro 31:30  Loveliness is deceptive And prettiness is vain, A woman who fears יהוה is to be praised.

Pro 31:31  Give her of the fruit of her hands, And let her works praise her in the gates.”

“THE TORAH OF YAHWAH IS ALIVE. IT GIVES LIFE AND IT BRINGS LIFE & IN LIVING YOU LIVE”®

Shalom,
Dr. Rabbi Cohen Shalomim Y. HaLahawi

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